Friendship

I would have sang a song without a music and would have danced without the tune of grace...I would have walked without knowing where I am heading to but I would prefer not to live without you. It is not because I would have preferred my life without you but for the simple reason "I LOVE YOU".....Thank you so much for being a friend. I simply love you.....
-- Sushil Regmi (one of my best friends)

Lot of things has been spoken, lot of things has been written about friendship. There are mails being circulated (in the form of ppt's, html, text files etc ) and also the status message of Google talk also includes things about friendship. But, it comes to reality, hardly it matters and people find it difficult to stick to what they say.

Friendship is a one way process until the other person realizes. The fact that the other person is silent about whatever ill you say, says in itself that he is a true friend. Sushil Regmi, one of my best friend made me realize this . He used to suffer all the ill things that I used to talk about.I continued this atrocity for 3 long years, Until, on the last day of engineering I realized that, he takes all things silently because he treated me as a best friend even though I didn't treat him that way. By the time I realized it , it was time to depart. Tears started rolling down his eyes when I bid farewell to him (in the train), the fact that I didn't cry because I suppressed it. Now, he stays in Nepal and I stay in Bangalore. But, there is a bond existing between us.

Initially, you will be stranger, then you know each other, then there will be differences, there will be misunderstandings, then there will be fight, there will be laughs, there will be outings,then there will be a cry, there will be shouting, there will be silence, then there is a break up,then there is a guilt why I broke, then there starts trust, there starts faith, then it forms a strong bond, without speaking you understand each other, you remain together (you need not meet each other nor you need to talk together) life long!!! If these things aren't there then its not called friendship, it might be called something else. Try to erase those moments what you spent together, if you erase it from each other's mind, then you are not friends.There is no fun of being friends without these moments.

The journey of friends in a ship has to pass through high tides, thunderstorms etc..but the ship has to sail with a strong bond of love, harmony and peace!!!

We meet as strangers, we work as colleagues, we share feelings as friends and we depart taking those wonderful moments with us...promising to live together as life long friends.!!!

This one is for two of my best friends who fought and are broken. Eagerly, waiting to see them together again!!!